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you met him at Orchestra practice he said he was an avid pianist you misheard him and you both had a good laugh after that he asked you on a date and that one date led to two and before you realized it you've been dating this guy for a year and lately the magic's gone maybe you've just started to notice how loudly he eats soup so you've decided it is time to break up but how in the world are you going to have that conversation hey everyone welcome to well cast this week we're talking about that awful discussion that comes at the 11th Hour of a relationship and we're going to give you our seven-step plan for making a clean break between you and your partner download this worksheet on your password protected mobile device and keep it handy for reference on the big day you ready step one first things first before anything else you need to make sure that you want to go through with this breakup if you're not happy in the relationship that is a huge red flag ask yourself the following questions do you communicate well does your partner accept you as you are are you open with your partner or do you find yourself keeping secrets from him do you look forward to seeing him or do you find yourself making excuses to avoid him o step two figure out exactly what you're going to say to your boyfriend odds are the first question he's going to ask is why are you doing this so on your worksheet write down your reason or reasons don't go overboard it can be as simple as I no longer have feelings for you or I don't think I can trust you anymore step three once you've committed to actually breaking up and have figured out exactly what you want to say plan out a maximum 3H hour time period for the daunting task these three hours will give him enough time to process but keep the conversation from spiraling into a loop of rehashing the same points over and over again step four make plans for directly after the conversation maybe ask a friend to catch a movie or schedule a haircut giving yourself a concrete out will help you leave any difficult situations and having something to do afterward will give you time to process the breakup but keep you from dwelling on it step five all right the time has come you've blocked out three hours scheduled ban practice for afterward and written down what you're going to say so say it remember this conversation is going to be painful for him and you nothing you say is going to change that fact be honest but sympathetic don't go overboard and don't get angry just say enough so that you can explain your reasons for breaking up step six when it's over it's over don't lead your partner on tell your now ex-boyfriend that you won't be contacting him and ask him to respect this wish listen you won't be doing him any favors by drawing the break up out or leaving a door open for a relationship further down the line you're breaking up for a reason remember so be sure that there are no emotional Loose Ends step seven the stuff exchange this...