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Welcome to the open to help show IN×39;your host Dr. Gloria hoarsely with my daughter in co-host Dr. Heidi hoarsely this shows brought to you by the open to help foundation in partnership with the Elizabeth kubler-ross foundation Radioéu39freeree going to have a wonderful show today because we×39’re going to talking about what I was helping with us and their×39’s anything I like it'hearing that at people are helping each other in the grief community absolutely mam awe've got some great guests today we×39;redoing to talk with Audrey Pelican who hosts the death CAFé at the opencenteringn New York City, and she's written great book which she will show us called six secrets to surviving widowhood right and Audrey×39’s going to give us a few tips which we always like to have widow heart is like a roller coaster ride here you have the highs you have the dips and then at the end of the roller coaster where it×39’s coming into the station and your plateau, and you feel okay I'm on it'm good I got it all under control and someone says something a song may play you find something in the drawer and eat right down to the dip you go again'm Audrey Pelican I'm a grief and health counselor when I was widowed 21years ago there was very little support out there for widowed women a widow needs to talk to another Widow to say this is what I'm going through I think×39’m going crazy but in reality Toronto, but society doesn't×39’t know how to deal with grief people have you know the best intentions they really are at a loss they have no idea what to do for you and honestly when you're a new Widow you have no idea you×39’re in a fog you're in foreign country without a map everybody else goes back to their life assuming that you×39’re going back to yours Recently asked a friend who I met not long after I was widowed and had moved, and I asked her did you ever have any idea of what I was going through, and she actually paused, and I could see that sense of I'm so sorry, and she said you had it all together you were in control unless you have no idea how I was so notion control, but we wear a mask widow swear a mask just to spare everybody else that you know that kind of grief so Think the misconception is that you know time heals all wounds but how much time part of my mission is actually to increase awareness you know grief is not taboo and it×39’s not contagious and widows need a hug in working with weather one on groups you'll find that you×39’ll not only have my support, but you walk away with truths that you×39;redoing to use for the rest of your life what you need to know is a widow is that you will experience joy once again so great to have you on the show today thank you so much for having me what good advice you have now how long has it been since you×39’ve been a widow my daughter and my youngest is they are 24so much 24 years Wow and how did your husband die actually Joe was diagnosed with leukemia six months after we remarried and the prognosis is about...